Poem from my homegirl Janiessa, all women need to read this piece, its brilliant
Know Yourself, Love Yourself (Why Women must act this way!?!)pt.1
By: Janiessa Norice
Okay I’ve unfortunately been subject to view this catastrophe. Young women these days aren’t young women I can’t even call them one word immature doesn’t fit. Oh wait LOST, lost is a perfect term. Understanding everyone comes from a different background not everyone gets the worlds greatest parents or parents at all.
But I care about young women no matter race. Knowing your self-worth and loving yourself is the best thing that you could do. Ladies please realize that if a guy only hits you up after 10:00pm and it’s not to make sure you got home after mid-week bible study he only wants one thing and giving him that doesn’t guarantee that he will be your boyfriend nor does it make him love you (lust and love are totally different).
Also, guys are more visual so what he sees will make a bigger impact on your relationship that what you tell them. My guy friends say all the time “Oh she say that but when I get her alone it’s another story”. Now the “downfall” is that wipes out like 90% of the guys in your surroundings. But contrary to what you may believe Any man is not having no man at all.
If you respect yourself, so will he. When it comes to any type of relationship, or courtship (yes I said courtship) women set the perimeters. It’s important to cover these things in the beginning because a man could be compared to a child if you don’t say the do’s and dont’s in the beginning they think that everything is ok.
Dont be afraid to disagree, that shows you have a mind of your own and thats ok. Sex is an option not a requirement please dont forget that either. Love you and be bold about it because then he has no choice but to love you either (or take his horny ass on).
Student at Georgia Southern University with a major in journalism and public relations She plans to eventually have my own magazine. You can keep up with her writings on her blog memoirsofasouthernbell.wordpress.com or via email at janiessa.norice@yahoo.com
